Friday, January 8, 2010

5 Reasons Why I Don’t Date Fat Men.

I’m sure someone will read the title of this blog and say “That is so mean. I can’t believe she would say something like that! Hadiyah you wrong!” Well I said it and I’m not apologizing because it needs to be said. There’s an obsession with weight and men are in no way affected by it. To be a fat man in this country is completely okay. Fat guys are funny, they get women that are completely out of their league (According to Jim, King of Queens) and they are even rich rappers that all the women want (Rick Ross, Fat Joe and Notorious B.I.G. - God Bless the dead) and I think it’s because of all these examples fat men everywhere think they have it going on. FYI sweety, that walk is not Swaggar that’s unbalanced pressure on your knees and ankles. 

Things have got to change and I'm taking a stand against the madness. I remember once this fat dude I know asked me what happened after he noticed I had picked up a few pounds. And it wasn't even out of concern like "Is everything okay?" No it was audacious like "Dayum girl, you slippin." Meanwhile he was standing there with the Octomom's third trimester stomach. Not to mention the many times I've gotten an offer from some big, circular shaped, mass of flesh complete with the head nod and wink like he’s doing me a favor. BEAT IT! If you are a fat man you CAN NOT have my phone number. HELL NAW. My apartment keeps good heat so I don't need fogging up the windows with all that body heat.

I mean really, why are men fat anyway. Think about it they don’t have hormonal issues, water retention, and they don't have babies. So again I ask, WHY ARE MEN FAT? I'm sure most of you have never thought of it but lucky for you I've discovered that fat on a man says a lot about what kind of man he is and here are THE 5 REASONS I DON’T DATE FAT BOYZ:


1.   If a man is fat HE IS LAZY. Fact: A man's metabolism is 5-10% faster than a woman's so he's already at an advantage. A man can take to the court with his boys, run a few games of basketball, tennis, soccer, etc., come home and have a six pack of abs. Maybe it's not that easy but it's close. So if he can’t do this for himself I can't depend on him to go out of his way for anything that I want or need. “Baby the car broke down, I'm stranded on the side of the road. I need you to come get me and the kids.” After a long paused, some involuntary heavy breathing and a sigh of irritation I’m sure I’d hear “Why don’t you try to flag someone down. I’m sure a good Samaritan will pick you up. I’ll stay on the phone with you until then.” Anything that takes energy he’s probably not going to do it.

2.   If a man is fat that HE HAS NO CONTROL. He’s going to eat any and everything he wants all the time. Which means if I’m not around and he sees a woman he likes…need I say more? I can’t trust this man because I know that his appetite is the only thing that truly matters to him.

3.   If a man is fat and his excuse is "I'm an emotional eater," HE'S GOT FEMININE TENDANCIES aka BITCH. Science tells us that women are emotional and men are critical. Women deal in fantasy and men in hard facts. So if he’s sitting around eating Häagen-Dazs®, watching Grey’s Anatomy, crying like he's got PMS, my period is probably going to start because there’s an overload of estrogen in the room.   

4.   If a man is fat HE'S NOT HEALTH CONSCIOUS. Diabetes, High Blood are serious diseases that can take you off the earth and he may be suffering from these diseases and never even know it because he hasn't been to the doctor. Beyond that he may even have a few sexually transmitted diseases lying dormant in his system waiting to pass on. (FYI…every man should be tested cause some are not as sexually contentious as they should be but that’s another blog) Bottom line is I could wake up with a bubbling mass of skin and smelly discharge because he thought it was just a regular bump.


5.   Finally, if a man is fat that means quite frankly HE'S FAT and that shit is not sexy! Stretchmarks on his ass, hotdog rolls on the back of his neck, the space where his pecs should be there are supple Christmas ornament shaped boobs. Then below the belt his package is hiding under his moon shaped belly shading the goodies from the sun which is keeping them cold and therefore not at their maximum potential. COLD + PACKAGE = SAD


In closing, I wrote this blog not to be mean nor to be insensitive but to call attention to the double standard that exists between men and women when it comes to weight. There's a ridiculous amount of pressure only on women when we all should be trying to be our best selves and live as healthy as possible. So fellas get it together.


94 comments:

  1. A fat man is a lazy man. I'm bringing the titties. I don't need his, too!

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    1. I am a fat men but I am not at all lazy. I practise sport, like to hang out with friends, like to dress and to mirror. I always take care of myself and as far as metabolism is concerned I have to tell you that sometimes I think junk-science is on your mind. Metabolism depends on your DNA completely. It has nothing to do with sex. And If a car braks down and I am stranded on the road I can repair it myself even if I'm 300 pounds (sigh) and 6.0 1/2 feet tall and always dieting... hoping to lose as many pounds as possible. Just to go back to my youth's weight before quitting smoking. I'm not rude to women but you're breaking my heart. Not all fat men are lazy. Not all thin men are good. Or vice versa. You almost made me cry. Ok I'm feminine. But what about women who have a more critical approach to life, work, children or school? Do they have a wrong DNA?

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    2. I am a fat men but I am not at all lazy. I practise sport, like to hang out with friends, like to dress and to mirror. I always take care of myself and as far as metabolism is concerned I have to tell you that sometimes I think junk-science is on your mind. Metabolism depends on your DNA completely. It has nothing to do with sex. And If a car braks down and I am stranded on the road I can repair it myself even if I'm 300 pounds (sigh) and 6.0 1/2 feet tall and always dieting... hoping to lose as many pounds as possible. Just to go back to my youth's weight before quitting smoking. I'm not rude to women but you're breaking my heart. Not all fat men are lazy. Not all thin men are good. Or vice versa. You almost made me cry. Ok I'm feminine. But what about women who have a more critical approach to life, work, children or school? Do they have a wrong DNA?

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    3. Really? How do you know a fat man isn't one with a gland disorder? I know one with a gland disorder who is otherwise perfectly healthy, it just makes him extra-extra-large. He plays sports, works out, and doesn't eat that much, but he still can't help his weight. And how do you know that man didn't go through something in his life that led to temporary laziness, so he gained weight, and now he IS trying to lose it? For all you know, he goes to the gym daily and eats right, TRYING TO LOSE THE WEIGHT. You don't. You take one look and jump to shallow conclusions. You are vain and shallow. Thank you for displaying that to everyone here.

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    4. My rule as a fit female is...his body fat has to match mine. I work hard to be 17% body fat. So no fatties.

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    5. If being overweight was due to a gland disorder you would have goiter and that's when someone lacks iodine in their metabolism. Usually they have like this sack of skin around their neck that's fatty. Most people are free from this and can't blame their overweightness to this. It's more like a very unhealthy diet,lack of control, and exercise.

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  2. I dated a fat guy and I never will again. He turned into a first class jerk. So what was I with him for? He wasn't nice and people treated me like I was some degenerate that couldn't get a better looking man. It hurt me because every sleezebag in town thought I was cheap and easy. Ruined any future dating prospects after him. I had to move before dating again. If your a fat guy guy don't be a jerk because the only thing the girl is attracted to is your personality and when that goes theres nothing else.

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    1. At least you could identify who the sleezebags were!! Why were you worried about other men anyhow, being you were already in a relationship?? No wonder the dude was a dick. You had a wandering eye.

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    2. I totally agree. Maybe if you weren't so concerned with what other men were thinking or your future dating chances, he wouldn't have turned out so bad. Maybe he was looking for the right girl and thought you were, until he noticed how you worried about other mens' opinions. Seriously, can you people grow brains and drop looks? I sadly know a girl with brains and beauty, but her kindness level is dead. She's literally a jerk to everyone, she's extremely arrogant because of her beauty and brains combination, and she only hangs out with other populars because it boosts her image, even though she dislikes most of them. So yeah, a combination of brains and kindness is what I look for. Beauty isn't in that problem because beauty will be the answer to it once I find it.

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    3. God people will literally find everything just to hate on a woman. She literally said that she couldn't date AFTER him, meaning she went searching AFTER he left her. And wow so if a woman thinks other people are sleeze bags this means she's looking around? Where is the logic in this exactly? God forbid a man is just a jerk by himself, ofc it's the women's fault. Always the women's fault (sigh).

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  3. I'm overweight myself but doing my best to cut down ( from 350-321 now ). While yes, I understand woman do have pressure on their looks, which is unfair, that doesn't mean they should be totally bias against dating an over-weight guy & vice versa for us guys as well. If one based their relationship on good looks alone, then their partner will sense it & take them for granted thinking or knowing he/she will still be there because of their looks. & Lets be honest, not everyone will have time for a daily workout, but can substitute by eating right & staying active. For everybody that's single & knows someone whom might be interested in you, has a good personality but not your cup-of-tea due to the person being over-weight, try to see if they'll willing to make changes to fit your needs. If they do make the effort, that's someone worth staying with.

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    1. This I agree with. Relationships are about WAY more than weight and looks and you never know if the large guy hitting on you is trying to cut down. If he's making you laugh and making you smile, why ruin it by looking at his weight and ending it all on that? Guys tend to do this too(I don't) and I hate it. Personally, I would never date that dumb blond just for her body and because she's so stupid I could get laid every night without any arguments. Or that B**** with the big breasts. Kindness and intelligence are the first two things I look for. All men and women should do that IMO. The world would be a happier place if people could get past appearance and money and start looking at personality.

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  4. 1 - im not lazy. I go for hour long walks at least once a day usually im chillin with friends and we end up walking for about 2 hours a day.

    2 - I eat small breakfasts and lunches. rarely snack. I do admit I like big dinners though.

    3 - im not an emotional eater but I am very feminine. no real point there but whatever

    4 - if diabeetus doesnt kill me cancer from smoking will, or complications from weight loss surgery (like ill ever get that), or getting hit by a car (fact: being overweight reduces your chances of dying in a car crash). any number of things can kill me. oh and I usually eat healthy foods. lots of fruits and vegetables, Plain rice balls (yum), ect.

    5 - SOME women like fat guys (yep its true) and I happen to go crazy for a fat girl. (the bigger the better)

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  5. I'm a guy and I dont date fat chicks-- what's wrong with an attractive woman not wanting to date a big fatso?

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    1. The problem is personality. Some 'hot' people are worse cheaters because they know they can get more. Also, typically, they spend so much time in the gym or the beauty salon and trying to romance the opposite sex that they forgot to pay attention in class. My first priority in picking a girl is her intelligence, then her kindness, then her sense of humor. Beauty is last because if she has all of those, she will be beauty no matter she looks like. You are a vain, shallow jerk. Congradulations on showing that to the world.

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  6. You are shallow and I hope that you will feel the horrible pain of rejection from a jerk, I hope that you go begging to some nice guy and they turn you down.

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  7. I now know that this is fake. she's pretending to be this stupid. cause if there are people that are actually this stupid I'll kill myself right now for being the same species.

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  8. The bloodclart made some good points - I think it was honest & funny.

    As a chubby guy myself I can take it on the chin.

    I am 6'1" and 225 pounds who was 190lbs when in shape.

    The thing is I have ALWAYS liked voluptuous women but notice very few women PREFER a bigger man...

    ...they like a bloke with a fat wallet though!

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  9. this is one of the dumbest things ive ever read. Im a big guy and i work hard. I would leave my mate stranded. Not to mention there are no negative health factors in my family. Which are bigger as well. I do know a 6'0 tall 160 pound guy with diabetes though. Hes only 25. Hmm explain that you vain bitch.

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  10. this is one of the dumbest things ive ever read. Im a big guy and i work hard. I would leave my mate stranded. Not to mention there are no negative health factors in my family. Which are bigger as well. I do know a 6'0 tall 160 pound guy with diabetes though. Hes only 25. Hmm explain that you vain bitch.

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  11. Ok, can I just say, I'm overweight(not considered, obese for my age and height, but I am slightly overweight and it is noticeable). You know when I gained it? When I was traumatized by a teacher. EVERYONE-IDC IF YOU'RE A F****** GUY OR GIRL-EVERYONE HAS A TENDANCY TO EAT MORE WHEN THEY ARE STRESSED! I was threatened, yelled at, cussed at, and otherwise mentally traumatized by a teacher. My family couldn't afford to put me in any sports I do like and my school only offers 2 or 3 that I don't play. This teacher kept me in during our free time outside and during P.E. to make me do extra work and when I got home, I was so sick that I kept thinking I needed to eat to feel better. I have successfully worked off a TON of that weight, but I am still overweight. On top of which, I would NEVER cheat on a woman or be lazy. I hate guys that do that crap. I spoil anyone I date. In 5th grade when I had my first GF, I spent 100$ on her birthday present(a new necklace she had wanted, which was cheap cause we were still kids so it wasn't too fancy). I don't have a lot of money, but when I date, I spend a lot of it on my GF. I am the Valedictorian of my grade level and have always made Straight-As, so I am not mentally deprived and I know enough to handle myself in bad situations. And as far as sexiness goes, if you truly love someone, it won't matter what they look like. You're nothing but a B**** looking for sex by the way you talk! If you were looking for a meaningful relationship, you'd look for anything and stick to someone who gives you that even if he is overweight! I'll admit, I do have a habit of eating when I'm not really hungry, but I've tried to stop that for a while and rather than all the time eating like I did when I was stressed, I now grab a small snack here or there and I usually try to grab healthy snacks(oranges are my favorites!). I can be funny, I'm very intelligent, I try to keep a positive attitude, and if I truly care for who I'm dating, I will spoil them rotten and the idea of cheating will never once cross my mind. Do I expect some help from time to time when I can't handle things on my own? DUH! A relationship is about give and take for better or for worse. I sincerely warn you that for an article like this, karma could come back and one day you could be fat. OH-Let me add this-I know one guy who is superbly overweight, but it isn't his fault! He has a gland disorder. He doesn't eat much and he plays sports, but he naturally gets larger because of a disorder. He's otherwise perfectly healthy according to doctors. The disorder just makes him extra-extra-large. I sincerely hope karma hits you and if possible, that it hits you upside the head.

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    1. WEIRD FACT: Stressed spelled backwards is desserts. People eat more desserts when they are stresssed. Mind=Blown. This is the same person who posted the original comment, by the way.

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  12. I'm a husky guy who prefers eating a pleasing meal and paying someone to cut the grass instead of going to the gym twice a day to a attract a needy, rambling, baby factory twat. :)

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  13. This is three years old but the writer of this article doesn't know anything about Fat Men. I am 6'7" and weigh just over 400 pounds. I go to the gym every morning. I may not eat 100% healthy, but if I was anything like what you claim then my house should have been out of food months ago. I have never cheated on a girlfriend, ever. everytime my ex called me because she was stranded I jumped off the couch and drove out to help. the same goes for any friend that calls me for car problems. Also I have been to the doctor and I don't have High BP or diabetes. I have recently found out that there i have a underperforming thyroid issue, which means my metabolism is basically none and no matter how much I work out unless i take meds i will always gain weight. the only thing worth reading in your article is that part that you don't find fat men attractive, and thats fine, that is your opinion, the rest is just trash. so to summarize, yes, I am fat. No, I am not lazy, I am Health concious, I am not a cheater, I am just fat. a fat happy regular guy. get over yourself.

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  14. Regardless of many people calling your fat comments as dumb, i do not think they are dumb. In fact, they are correct. The fat people just do not realize this because their brain has degenerated by 8-16%, depending on how fat they are. It is a known scientific fact. After all, if fat people were smart they would not be fat. It is so unhealthy to be fat. They

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  15. I can't get over all the butthurt men posting on here.Bitches for sure.She does'nt like fat men.So what.Move on.It's like the world stops catering to some guys for a hot minute and they can't handle it.

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  16. What about guys with Bulimia/other eating disorders, they have to rott in hell too?

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  17. I'm too petite to date a fat guy. The "body logistics" just don't work. About 5'9 and 170 pounds and no more is perfect for me.

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  18. I'm attracted to overweight guys with a kind funny personality. Somehow I feel safe and protected near him. As far as the thin guy more shallow and cruel have been my experiences

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  19. i am in Africa but I agree that fat men stinks,the writer says the whole truth.I AM 50 years alive and just want to say a fat man will have a hard time being good in bed.I HATE people with fattutide for they live in denial. IT is okay to disagree with the writer but if she were to aggree with the fat boys she to will be very wrong and deserving the fire of hell.DO YOU WANT TO ARGUE WITH ME,WRITE TO ME AT hugtruelove@yahoo.com

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    1. Fat guys are actually really good in bed, as long as they aren't morbidly obese.

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    2. Depends on the dude, although the fatness crushes my chest when he is on top making it hard for me to breathe. Regular shipped dudes can also get into a greater variety of positions. I'd rather have a fat guy than a skinny guy though. Regular would be better. My boyfriend got fat 3 years into the relationship, so now I'm stuck with a fat dude. He is awesome in bed, but he was awesome no matter the weight. The bottom line is fat dudes are not necessarily better in bed, but there is more to hug.

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  20. i am in Africa but I agree that fat men stinks,the writer says the whole truth.I AM 50 years alive and just want to say a fat man will have a hard time being good in bed.I HATE people with fattutide for they live in denial. IT is okay to disagree with the writer but if she were to aggree with the fat boys she to will be very wrong and deserving the fire of hell.DO YOU WANT TO ARGUE WITH ME,WRITE TO ME AT hugtruelove@yahoo.com

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  21. Wow u must be perfect. Great for you.

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  22. Your soul must be trash, with your mind following close behind it.

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  23. I have never read something more ridiculous in my life. As much as I want to rip this article apart, I'll choose to wisely disagree and say one thing; Love is love, and when you're truly at that point, this silly shit just doesn't matter.

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    1. it does matter sweetie. Fat guys should date only fat women. Being fat is not silly, it is a big problem. Are you a fat guy?

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  26. Hey :) I get your reasoning behind calling attention to this double standard concerning men and women. Frankly I don't think it exists. I'm somebody who you would call fat, I'm 6'4 and weigh 220lbs.

    I have never been on a date and I'm 24. Surely I don't have the best happy go lucky personality but I'm a nice enough guy and the girls I asked out always gave my weight as a reason.

    I'm not lazy either, I actually did a marathon recently I just eat too much sometimes so you're right about impulse control.

    It's really hard for me to maintain friendships as well cause a lot of guys don't like being associated with fat people.

    In my opinion everybody who doesn't adhere to the strict beauty standards of society gets treated pretty badly.

    Lastly I fully understand big guys are not attractive to women. I think it's not true fat guys get girls like I said I never even had the slightest chance.

    I will be out of law school soon and since I've never even touched a woman I am coming to terms with ending up alone. I am still working on being healthy but even after I'm in good shape I still think I won't be able to attract women because my personality and my self-esteem has been crippled by my loneliness so I wouldn't even know how to deal with a potential girl who liked me.

    It's refreshing to hear a woman speaking the truth since a lot of women will tell fat guys that they have a shot at dating which in the end only leads to disappointment over and over again. Thanks!

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    1. I'm same height and weigh 100 pounds more. Just because you have fat on your body doesn't mean you're fat. Now, you are (no offense) not very strong that's one thing. I was blessed with being abnormally strong for a 19 year old. I don't consistently go to the gym but I can out lift most guys my age when I do go, most of my strength being natural. Most women are shallow and only see fat. It so stupid. My girlfriend can't keep her hands off of me, she is a little over weight as well, but she knows I'm strong and really likes the muscle. So I guess my point is the author of

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    2. 6"4 and 220 isnt big. your chubby but so what! its not about the size. the gym rats will dog a female out becuase they are so into themselves. what she fails to see is not eberyone has the same high metabolism. our genes, the foods, stress our age...this all plays a part in things. i tell you any good girl wont care what size you are if your a decent guy. losing weight isnt that hard and not eveyone wears weight the same. i dated a guy 6"4 215 he was a foot ball player and was very muscular but he didnt have a six pack and huge pectorals he had a little extra but he rocked my world

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  27. Judging by some of the vicious responses, the writer really hit a nerve. And thanks to the law student for your courageous honesty. You're one in a million and worth your weight in gold.

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  30. The person who wrote this article is a grade-A CUNT. That's all.

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    1. That's because you are fat. A fat guy you are lol

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  31. I can't believe what an awful person it takes to write such filth. We ALL have faults, imperfections and insecurity. God forbid you EVER gain a pound, get a gray hair, wrinkle, or your boobs start to sag. I genuinely hope you fall in love with someone and then they break your heart by telling you that they're turned off by your imperfections (specifically, your awful personality). You are a sick, miserable person and you deserve to die alone.

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  32. LOL I read the title and kind've thought I'd be offended, but this is so off base I actually laughed out loud.

    I loved the wannabe correlation between not controlling what you eat and being a cheating scumbag HAHA.

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  33. I used to weigh 350 lbs. Now 200 and ripped. I started over eating cause my parents died in a car crash when I was 18 years old. I guess that made me a estrogen laced emotional bitch. I dont know why any guy would even think of penetrating your nasty snatch. There is a word for women that think like you and that word is cunt. What a ugly soul you have

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    1. I'm sorry to hear that Chad.. I lost my parents at a young age as well. The author of this article has no idea what they are talking about..

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    2. Yeah, Chad, this writer is obviously one sad bitch. The whole feminist agenda antics in her writing through me off as well.

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  34. Whoever wrote this article is ridiculously uninformed. First of all, you cannot lump every person of a specific weight group into a few narrow categories, which basically boil down to being lazy and out of control. Some fat guys (and women) I know are in fact hard working, at least fairly active, and very health conscious and in control of themselves... they simply either love their food (as in my case - though I'm only moderately overweight), happen to have a slower metabolism (which in fact does make it harder for them to maintain a "healthy" weight than for the average egocentric person who thinks they work hard when they actually don't), or finally.. maybe they just don't care that much to be thin (also my case). Personally I have been overweight and thin on multiple occasions, and in the end I just prefer to have some meat on my bones. If you don't want to date fat guys, that's all well and good.. but you don't have to be a complete egotistical insulting bi*ch about it when there are plenty of good fat guys out there that deserve better than you anyways. Also.. if you're against the double standard, where women are under more pressure to be thin than men are, then why don't you stop perpetuating stereotypes that men aren't allowed to be emotional but women are!? I agree with you that women are put up to unfair standards in terms of weight, as well as many other issues, but don't become part of the problem. There are plenty of skinny people out there who have not one inkling of what it is to be health conscious, but simply have fast metabolisms or don;t eat that much. Personally I admit to eating a lot and enjoying it.. but I also go to the gym and eat plenty of healthy foods on top of it.

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  35. Some one do me a favor and find the "science" this person supposedly used to prover her points....

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  36. JUMP FORWARD TO THE YEAR 2015.

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    AHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAAHAAAAAA!!!!

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  37. That's all fine just as long as you yourself aren't overweight. A 250 lb girl rejected me because I myself am overweight. Of course that didn't stop her from having sex with me first before breaking the news but I guess the hypocrite needed to get off first, oh and 3 free meals because I wasn't too fat for at least a couple dates. But what's even funnier is after she dumped me because she found a skinny guy she comes crawling back because it turns out that guy only wanted easy sex and didn't want a relationship with her at all because she was as he put it "a disgusting pig only good for a fuck and a few laughs". Well, it made me laugh too. Karma is a bitch, ain't it? lol

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  38. If a fat girl dates a skinny guy, he is perfect, he has no preconception, he loves her because of her inside.
    He's an example.
    BUT
    If a fat guy dates a skinny girl
    He should lose weight.
    He doesn't deserve her.
    He should make gym and get hot.

    You who posted the article must feel shame for yourself.

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  39. Person who wrote this is obviously under educated in terms of common sense. Probably never thought that fat guy could have hypothyroidism or cushings. Well wait it's a medical condition so I'm sure this person wouldn't date a fat guy due to that. This person might want to add 6 items to their list. I don't date fat guys who were born with weight gaining medical conditions or got them growing up. Regardless of who I have dated I've always gotten to know that person. I have been fat and a fit healthy guy I have dated fit, avg, and fat women. From my experience avg to fat women seem to be more dependable, loyal and not clingy. Now again this is my personal experience, all types of women can be good and bad for each individual. People who judge a person before they get to know them do not deserve the same respect.

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  40. Just search hadiyah robinson on Google, this woman seriously looks like a man. She(?) Also has the largest perminant blackhead I have ever seen on a human face. But here is the real kicker, she is in fact a woman that any doctor in the country would consider over weight. Talk about unattractive combine her looks with her attitude and you get a disgusting miserable post op tranny (I aplogize to any other trannys that may read this I know you do not want this one lumped in with you). Mr. Robinson doesn't like fat men because she used to be one and she hates herself, simple as that.

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  41. Just search hadiyah robinson on Google, this woman seriously looks like a man. She(?) Also has the largest perminant blackhead I have ever seen on a human face. But here is the real kicker, she is in fact a woman that any doctor in the country would consider over weight. Talk about unattractive combine her looks with her attitude and you get a disgusting miserable post op tranny (I aplogize to any other trannys that may read this I know you do not want this one lumped in with you). Mr. Robinson doesn't like fat men because she used to be one and she hates herself, simple as that.

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  42. You can't judge someone based on their looks alone its what's inside that's what truly matters, and also makes a person. It seems one guy that happened to be a big dude done you dirty now you have a negative issue about that. Truly meet people and give someone a chance step outside of your usual mode you just might be amazed.

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  43. Burn in hell slut I bet you've been ran threw like a train ur pussy is like throwing a hotdog down a hallway

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  44. So if a man gets diabetes and sleep apnea or some other health problems that makes it impossible for him to stay thin so he becomes fat, he is a lazy stupid degenerate according to you... You are simply retarded.

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  45. all you fat guys saying your pre determined to be fat, well there is this thing called science which you have obviously not heard of. because as a dietician i can 100% assure you that most of if not all obesity disorders can be prevented and reversed by a diet that is cleanand sugar free. personally dealing with obese people everyday i see you tell yourselves there is no sugar in bread and very little in your coffees and just continually lie to yourselves and keep yourself from reaching your goal of a normal weight.
    do you knnow why you dont over fill your cars fuel tank? because of expansion! just like if your body doesnt not have an abundance of cals it will use your fat for fuel, on the flip side over fueling is goingto cause expansion and there for fat! honestly its not that hard quit lying to yourselves because the dr told you your messed up just to get you out of your office and do something about it

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  46. I like the honesty of this article. I married a fat guy. I stuffed down my dislike for his weight. We were married for 20 years then he died from lifestyle complications. Yup. He died because he didn't take control what went into his mouth. He didn't take care of himself. I'm not going to date a fat guy again. He doesn't have to have a six pack, BUT no more guys who don't care for themselves. SO I'm off to Yoga and will only date a guy who has a sport and likes to live. No more couch potatoes for me.

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  47. What about the pressure on men to be tall?

    How many women out there wont date a short guy and they here it all the time.

    What if guys stopped dating women under 6 feet tall?

    Talk about double standards.

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  48. I think that was quite the shallow and rude thing to say.

    I'm a guy who is well, to put it plainly, morbidly obese. I think it's things like this which were the main reasons for my recent suicide attempts.

    And anyone who has never been through probably doesn't understand it either. I have tried to lose weight, and if anyone could the gold medal for trying harder than anyone else, it would probably go to me. With all my attempts, I went from 410 lbs. about 5 years ago to a very constant 370 lbs. now.

    And I do have self control; in fact, there are some days I go the entire day without eating anything, and when I do eat, it is usually healthy: salad, fruit, etc. Yet my weight seems to have hit 370 and won't go any lower.

    I'm not lazy, in fact if you ask anyone who knows me, I'm a very hard worker.

    I also think another good point is that is a man said anyone one of things, he'd probably never be allowed to be online again. I think it's really a double standard.

    I think everything I read was not only very offensive, but also seem to have been written in a spout of anger.

    As I said earlier, I recently attempted suicide, and yes, reading articles like this and similar can really push a man to the edge. Sometimes when you're told something so many times, you really do believe.

    As for now, I am searching for a girl, and by God, I'd hurt myself to at least say I didn't try. And there are some out there, who will probably read this, and be pushed further into the dark pit of depression. I think you all should really be more careful with what you say and do.

    For anyone who is reading this who is in my situation: you can find someone. I guarantee it. It may not be easy, it may not even seem worthwhile at first. But it is. You can do this. Fight the good fight; try.

    And if anyone who says these kinds of things gets you down, remember one thing; they're not worth your time anyway.

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    1. I hope you succeed man, you deserve better, this kind of people has no idea what it's like the struggle of being overweight and doing your best to change and having little to no results.. you can do it! Keep up the good work

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    2. Hire a personal trainer and a dietitian and stop trying to kose weight by yourself. You don't know how to do it by yourself. You need guidance and help. If you were serious about losing weight, you would have sought prodessional help to do so.

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  49. Whoever wrote this article has no idea what she's talking about. I'm a fat man who has been dealing with depression pretty much all my life, trying to be healthy, trying to change, having self esteem problems because of those judgmental bitches like you... Can't you just fucking have your opinion without imposing it on other people? You are the reason why so much people have self esteem issues, i still cant believe you're allowed to be free in society, i have been struggling my entire life because people like you can't mind their own business and keep judging before even knowing people that's not fair! You're a worthless cunt and I hope you get fat or a disease that will make you ugly and make people laugh at you and insult you for something you have NO CONTROL ABOUT WHATSOEVER, you disgusting cunt you dont even deserve life, i hope you die in pain

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    1. Quit whining. Your self esteem issues are arw tour problem, not the author. If you want to lose weight, get serious,about it and seek professional help as in a dietitian and personal trainer.

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    2. As if you are in a position to judge anyone. Nobody is perfect. I bet you wouldn't say this to a person's face.

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    3. As if you are in a position to judge anyone. Nobody is perfect. I bet you wouldn't say this to a person's face.

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  50. Seriously fat and obese men have double standards, they expectel to date a smaller women but won't date a woman who looks like them. il8nstead of being butthurt about this article, they need to do something abouttheir weight.

    Women are entitled to want what they want just like men arem A woman doesn't owe it herself to be with a fat flabby man just because he wan5s to be with her. She has the right to not want to be with the obese fat flabby man so fat men stop whining and get over it.

    If your fat bothered you so much you would have done something a long time ago and not let your body go the way that it has to the point where you are now fat and flabby and have eaten yourself out of the dating field. Women want men they are sexually attracted to there is nothing sexually attractive about an obese man with a big old stomach.

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    1. Actually some people find fat members of the opposite or same sex to be very attractive.. blame judgemental people in general who fall for society's bullshit instead of minding their own business.

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  51. Grammar errors - check.
    Spelling errors - check.
    Childish ranting- check.
    Privilege showing - check.

    Yep, the person who wrote the article is not only stupid, but very immature and shallow. I guarantee this the person (and a lot of others here) will become single mothers because they will date and have dated the fit "Bad Boys."

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  52. hahaha is funny how the only people getting their feeling hurt are the fat ones. Gross all that fat on top of me gross, you have to ribs, no neck, no self control, no hobbies that actually involve physical activities. Fat guys are just lazy.

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  53. Wow! ... What a shallow bitch!!

    First of all: guy or girl, you should be dating someone because you love THEM for WHO THEY ARE!! Beauty fades my friends, but a person's heart rarely does.

    Second: I date fat men, chubby men, thin men, fit men, average men... It don't make no difference to me! Have some of the fat men I've dated been the stereotype "lazy"? yes! Have some of the other thin/fit men ALSO been just as lazy? Absolutely! I think the lazy argument is cute! It shows what little person knows about people in general. A basic psychology course will tell you that humans are INHERENTLY LAZY!! It's been that way since forever! People just gussy it up as "we're making other people's lives 'easier'!" Go in, think of ANY invention you want, and you can plea that it's time saving or any other b.s., but the point is whatever it is, it was made because people are lazy and want to work the least and still get the most done. Anyone who dares use the lazy excuse needs to wake up and admit they're lazy themselves! I am! I can either go to the grocery store or go work out in a field and grow my own food... I'll take the store! (And I'm sure you do too!). Instead of driving in a car or using any mode of transportation, why don't you just walk to every place you need to go? Humans were built for walking, not sitting! Oh but let me guess, you'd rather take less time to get to where you need to go... Plus that car or nice and air-conditioned. Plus, why walk all that way and her sweaty when you just bought that nice new dress... So please, just admit you're as lazy as the rest of humanity and get over it! True, there are varying degrees of it, but you can't use "lazy" itself as an excuse when all are inherently lazy (whether they admit it or not)

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    1. Third: beauty and attractiveness are subjective human constructs anyway! Who says that just because a person is thin, then there are automatically attractive?! Personally, I've known people who used to be thin then chubbed up and looked way better! The same is true vice versa, but the point is: just because I find someone attractive at one weight and another attractive at another, doesn't mean everyone else does. But once again, that's all just surface stuff anyway. There are men who looked attractive to me the more I simply got to know them BECAUSE I looked past all that primitive surface appeal and was drawn to the man inside. But if you wish to hold out for an Adonis, then go for it, but expect to be lonely and not as fulfilled when you realize he's probably got rocks for brains or a terrible attitude.

      Although I try not to generalize, the majority of fat/chubby men I've dated have been funnier, respectable, and know how to have a good time. While the majority of thin/fit men I've dated have been, in one way or the other, full of themselves. Confidence is one thing, but being cocky just because you have a body that society tells you to have is unattractive. Like I've said, I hate generalizing, but that's how it's mainly been while dating. But I still don't let it stop me, and I still continue to look at the man himself because looks are meaningless and always subject to change.

      Since you're so hung up on looks though, answer me this: You fall in love with a perfectly fit man, you two have great time and eventually get married. Fast forward a some years, and he develops some kind of illness or gets into an accident that maimes his ability to move and be as active, then, through no fault of his own, this injury/illness causes him to gain a bunch of weight... What do you do now? You going to immediately run out to the nearest divorce lawyer and tell him he needs to sign it because you can't have a fat lazy slob like him anymore? CLEARLY, you didn't love HIM then, OR if you argue you wouldn't do that because you love him as a person, then you're saying you love a fat man now. So really, the problem is with you! If you choose to divorce him simply because he gained weight, then you're shallow and you don't clearly deserve him. If you stay with him, now you're a hypocrite because you're not standing by what you claimed, unless you're going to admit you're wrong about dating based on looks. Your call!

      However, girl to girl, just reading your blog here has already made it abundantly clear that you have an ugly heart and I wouldn't want to even be bff's with you if I ever saw you in person. Do some growing up first!

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  54. I feel as if iam reading a bitche's diary! ����

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  55. People fucking suck.

    Thia article is old and out played. Their are tons of article's about 5 reasons who xyz dont do this and that. Good for you why you think fat men suck and need only five reasons why you dont date them. I can come up with a shit load more reasons that just five.

    I use to be a fat guy. Until I had enough of being rejected by women i wanted. I use to think alot like these other comments. Oh someone will accept me and fall in love with me. That ship never sailed for me. Sure their are thin women who date fat men. Same as the fat girl dating the skinny man. I see alot of butt hurt in here. Me being a former fatty. Lets come to grips for a moment. When you are out of shape it suck major donkey nuts. I hated it. I smelled and sweated most of the time. I was out of breath. My knees and and body hurt. I decided after a huge fight with a friend zone girl. Enough was enough. I stopped talking to women for four years to souly work on my body and health. I stopped all of the bs eating. It was not easy working out at first. Even at 6'0 197lbs currently. Starting weight 386. I have cut alot and I am tone and ripped at the same time. However I can see how damaging it was to be that over weight. I see it physically and I felt it emoutionally. The person who wrote this may suck for writing what they did. It is the truth that women who don't want to date fat men are some of the reasons. Their are more than just five. Being over weight prevented me from enjoying certain things in life. Some of you may be successful with your over weight bodies. For me I got fed up and tired of it. People treat you differently as well. Alot of you are saying well accept my fat acceptance. If that makes you feel better good for you. If i gain so much ad five pounds I feel it. Life sucked when I was fat. I do not miss it at all. People will date who they want. You can not force people to date your unrealistic expectations.I see alot of salty rejected men who were just like the old me. What has loosing weight and getting into shape done for me? I got the jobs i could never get. I am a lot more fit. Women approach me and talk. They never did when I was fat. The girl that I really wanted never came back. But... I found someone better in every way. On thay weight loss journey people saw the change and they compliment. I am still build and loosing. It was not fun for me to be fat. It was miserable and I was a sad person. Im not promting fat bashing. This my personal experience with being fat. It sucked ass and i hated it.

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  56. People fucking suck.

    Thia article is old and out played. Their are tons of article's about 5 reasons who xyz dont do this and that. Good for you why you think fat men suck and need only five reasons why you dont date them. I can come up with a shit load more reasons that just five.

    I use to be a fat guy. Until I had enough of being rejected by women i wanted. I use to think alot like these other comments. Oh someone will accept me and fall in love with me. That ship never sailed for me. Sure their are thin women who date fat men. Same as the fat girl dating the skinny man. I see alot of butt hurt in here. Me being a former fatty. Lets come to grips for a moment. When you are out of shape it suck major donkey nuts. I hated it. I smelled and sweated most of the time. I was out of breath. My knees and and body hurt. I decided after a huge fight with a friend zone girl. Enough was enough. I stopped talking to women for four years to souly work on my body and health. I stopped all of the bs eating. It was not easy working out at first. Even at 6'0 197lbs currently. Starting weight 386. I have cut alot and I am tone and ripped at the same time. However I can see how damaging it was to be that over weight. I see it physically and I felt it emoutionally. The person who wrote this may suck for writing what they did. It is the truth that women who don't want to date fat men are some of the reasons. Their are more than just five. Being over weight prevented me from enjoying certain things in life. Some of you may be successful with your over weight bodies. For me I got fed up and tired of it. People treat you differently as well. Alot of you are saying well accept my fat acceptance. If that makes you feel better good for you. If i gain so much ad five pounds I feel it. Life sucked when I was fat. I do not miss it at all. People will date who they want. You can not force people to date your unrealistic expectations.I see alot of salty rejected men who were just like the old me. What has loosing weight and getting into shape done for me? I got the jobs i could never get. I am a lot more fit. Women approach me and talk. They never did when I was fat. The girl that I really wanted never came back. But... I found someone better in every way. On thay weight loss journey people saw the change and they compliment. I am still build and loosing. It was not fun for me to be fat. It was miserable and I was a sad person. Im not promting fat bashing. This my personal experience with being fat. It sucked ass and i hated it.

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  57. Hello,My name is Peter.

    I'm morbidly obese around 300 pounds and I'm 5'10.I really do suffer with my body.I workout atleast 4 times out of the week,which consist some fast pace walking with preferably hills,some Gym.I tend to do more back and front squats,deadlifts,crunches,bench press and my back exercises.My favorite exercise is Cycling.Which i train hard so i could last long in those hills.I'm in decent shape with my breathing skill,which has helped continue going hard.I'm stuck at my weight, coming down from almost 500 pounds and 3 yrs.ago i decided to do something about it.All my life I've been Big.The smallest I've ever weghted was 230 lbs. When i was a senior in high school and i starve my body to get there (never again will i do that)..I have suffered my entire life with this weight.It has affected pretty much all my life psychological.From being insecured,unsure about myself,feeling sorry for myself,when i was younger even my confidence.Just with all I've mentioned, you could tell i don't even have a dating life..This last years I've work on myself, worked on my confidence and my mental issues.I have improved and have learned to take rejection.I'm 33 yrs old and I only had One girlfriend my entire life when i was in high school when i was my smallest weight.Never again have I've been successful in dating.I have defeated myself (mind) many times and worst when you're constantly rejected.But thanks to some courage to learn to love myself has helped and I've seen improvement in myself.My mind and self esteem has been affected by all those years since i was a kid being mocked,made fun of,avoided, rejected, feeling like an outsider.Which slowly i became cold hearted,avoided people because of their criticism or to be their center of mockery and jokes.So that again inpacts your mind in becoming socially awkward or social less..Like i said,it has taken until mu late 20's and early 30's to work on all my faults,shortcomings,mental traumas and confidence,insecurities,etc.

    Please just so you know,not every big guy just sits on his behind and pigs out,that's a lie.There's many people that have metabolical problems.I eat small portions a day and calculated calories and I'm slowly loaing weight at a very short pace.But many sacrifices I've done.There's day i lose some and days somehow i gain some..horrible body of mine.

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  58. I love fat guys....
    To each their own

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  59. Thank you for writing this,
    I am a 21 y/o woman, 5'3, 138 lbs-trying to figure out a way to suggest in my dating profile that viewers on the heavier side would not be a match, especially if there is no compatibility or chemistry in the first place. I really appreciate the bluntness and "pull the band aid off/just say what you mean" approach that a lot of the online daters (some guys profiles say right out "only if you're slim/fit", "no fat girls", take care of yourself",etc.) and yourself have taken in order to filter the pool of potential mates/partners. I don't have the guts to do that, and feel as if I'll be met with confrontation in the in-boxed form due to poor/insensitive choice of wording. I would never deliberately try to offend or hurt anyone, unless I was first attacked. Is there a nice way to say what you have said and apply it to a profile format?

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  60. I'm fat as fuck in my wallet and have any woman I give a fuck to have. This bitch is a ho. Nothing wrong with that. Guess what, noone likes you for your words. If you're good looking that's all you need in this world; people automatically like you more. Being heavy does not construe healthy to most as most have underlying comorbidity.

    Guys: if you want women, you need 1 of 2 things. 1) ripped and super attractive. Women are conniving and shallow creatures and you'll get tons of pussy because they'll want your dick. or 2) have enviable amounts of money. Women are down to fuck even with someone they ordinarily wouldn't if you can provide for them.

    case in point: Women are holes to be used as such, this woman is just pointing out the opposite is also true, and we see it plenty. Guys with no abilities with ladies get used and lost while the guy laments. Women who are sexually active and who live hteir own way are called 'sluts', women who find men just to support them and don't give sex and the like are 'sugar babies'. All just labels on the basics of what all humans need: air, water, food, sex, the last two may be reversed.

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